Since my last “Ask Maria” article I have received a few questions that I will be answering in this article.

One of the questions I received was about how stressful it is to be in a relationship, and also having to focus on school, and how to maintain a balance.

My advice for this is it’s always going to be tough to keep a relationship while having to focus on school. You have to decide whether your relationship is too stressful; if so, I suggest you give each other time as this will help you think more about what you need, and focus on your other priorities. When you feel more clear headed, you can continue your relationship.

If you constantly feel too stressed, and find this relationship affecting you, I think you should consider to end it completely. Having problems is very normal, but not when it causes you tremendous hurting or stress. You need to consider your happiness. Everyone needs a balance, and I think having this peace of mind would be very good.

Another question I received was about how to get out of a depressing state of thinking.

I think most of the change has to come from the person, but there are many activities you can do that can help. I think one important way to think, is with positive thoughts; try to see the light side of things.

Try new things too, as you never know if you’ll love it. Doing different things is also a way to distract yourself.

Try surrounding yourself with positive people, and people that only want to see you happy.

These are the short answers for some of the questions I received for this edition of “Ask Maria”.

I realize that coming back from Winter Break is really making people want the school year to just end or Spring Break to begin. From going from sleeping in for a week and half straight right back to waking up early, staying in school for six and a half hours, and then having homework to do after school can be a huge switch in a small amount of time, but we should be used to it right? We’ve been doing it for how many years? It still doesn’t make it easier. Sometimes, it seems to make it harder – especially for seniors.

Seniors, this is our last year- and our last semester coming up. This is it, and we’re done. Some of us are off to college, some of us have jobs lined up for us, and some are moving away. We all have a plan for something, and I hope none of you plan on being here another year – or even having to go to summer school after the rest of us are graduating. We’ve waited 12-13 years for graduation day, and this last year can be the most stressful with figuring out college, working part time, and getting all your last credits together.

I have seen a lot of people slacking – not coming to school, falling back on homework, and using “senior slide” as an excuse, but honestly most of you guys probably “senior slid” for the past four years. This is the year that counts. Colleges will be looking at your current grades, and your current attendance. Do well because on graduation day when YOU are walking across that stage, sitting next to your friends, laughing, thinking about how you’re going to miss everyone, YOU’LL be able to say “I finally made it.”

So, come to school, do your homework, give it all you’ve got; this is your last year. Don’t waste away the past 12 years because you’re lazy this last one. Also, come see your friends. You’re never going to be surrounded by these specific people everyday again.

I have a friend that didn’t do too well in school; she had many problems with school – with the people, with her anxiety, and with the homework. She dreaded coming to school, and she swore up and down that once she left she was never going to look back. She graduated and is now in college and I hear her over and over again saying “I wish I could go back, it was so easy.”

You guys might believe life after high school is going to be easy but that’s when it all really starts. You’re eventually going to have to start paying rent, you’ll probably be working and in school, and you’ll have so many more responsibilities than you do now. So, take this one responsibility that you have and make the most out of it, because you will regret it if you don’t.

Sometimes gift giving to foodies can be difficult, but with this gift guide you and a family member can team up and give the best gifts of the holiday season.

Many coffee lovers know how tiring the same old flavors of boring plain coffee can get, and how it’s hard to replicate a drink from their favorite coffee shop. The Keurig system takes little pods and turns them into hot fresh cups of coffee. There are many different companies who have teamed up with Keurig, such as Starbucks, to bring to you the flavor of their coffee to your own home. The machine itself can run a little pricey but it is worth it when you don’t feel like going out for a cup of coffee. http://www.keurig.com/Brewers/Home/Keurig®-2-0-K550-Brewing-System/p/keurig-2-0-k550-brewing-system

Juicing your food is something that has recently become very popular. Most juicers don’t do your fruits and vegetables justice. The Nutri Bullet RX actually keeps all of the precious fibers that make the fruits and veggies healthy. This makes your juice just as healthy as eating your food in a solid form. Juicers can be very expensive though, for instance if you want the Nutri Bullet RX, but the cheaper the make, the less expensive. https://www.nutribulletrx.com

Going out and buying soda for a party can be pretty pricey at the checkout. The Sodastream uses water and flavor pods and creates soda that tastes exactly like the name brand. Water is something that almost everyone has and it is an ample resource. The flavor pods are costly but it is a convenient way to always have soda on hand. https://www.sodastreamusa.com/play-starter-kit-p591.aspx

Sandwiches are the classic snack whenever you really need a quick bite to eat. Paninis are something that you used to only be able to get at specialty restaurants, but with a panini press you can finally make them yourself! These can run pretty pricy if you want one that tells you when your sandwich is done, but the cheaper models will also get the job done. http://www.amazon.com/Cuisinart-GR-1-Griddler-Panini-Sandwich/dp/B000CPZXGO

Using a full size blender can be a hassle when you have little counter space, especially when you’re trying to make lots of sweets for special occasions. This is why a simple hand blender will make any baking job much easier. http://www.qvc.com/KitchenAid-Two-Speed-Hand-Blender.product.K301210.html?sc=K301210-Targeted&cm_sp=VIEWPOSITION-_-3-_-K301210&catentryImage=http://images.qvc.com/is/image/k/10/k301210.001?$uslarge$

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I have heard several people discuss getting a new pet recently. I own 3 ferrets and whenever that topic comes up I hear people say “I want to own a ferret one day.” Ferrets are a great animal to own, as long as you can provide everything you need for them.

Ferrets can get a little tricky. They can be messy, stinky, curious, expensive, and sometimes even mean. I have found that the female ferrets seem to be a little more vicious than the males, but by all means do not have these animals around children, even if it seems like the sweetest animal you have ever met. They do have teeth and claws. The children and the animals do not know better. There have been several incidents where parents have had their infants around ferrets and it never, NEVER ends well for the child.

Ferrets will cost you a decent amount of money. You’re going to need to pay for a decently sized cage, preferably multiple litter boxes, litter, ferret food, treats, toys, water dishes, and bedding. Ferrets also require vet visits. It is necessary to get them their rabies and distemper shot, after the first year they will need at least one visit a year. Also, keep in mind, ferrets can catch sickness such as the flu when you are sick, so be careful when holding them when you don’t feel your best.

A ferret’s diet is very simple. They are carnivores, so their diet consists of meat. High in protein, high in energy and low in fiber. Marshall’s Ferrets is a large company that Petco gets their ferrets and other products through. It is a ferret mill that hasn’t had the best reviews on how they treat their ferrets when they are in their fosilities, and also in the products that they sell. Many people purchase a ferret and think ferret food would be the best option for them. I know that’s what I thought, but this is why you should do a lot of research before purchasing an animal. Cats and ferrets have similar nutritional needs. Most high quality kitten foods are better for ferrets than some common ferret foods. A great substitute would be WELLNESS core kitten food. Why wouldn’t you want to feed your ferrets Marshall ferret food? Well, like I said, ferrets are CARNIVORES, strict carnivores and Marshall’s food has a lot of harmful ingredients for these picky creatures. One ingredients in this product is corn, do NOT feed your ferrets vegtebles or fruits. A ferret can live off of Marshall’s ferret food but will not have the longest or healthiest life span (they should live about eight years), they will also be more prone to illnesses.

Buy ferrets in bunches, and learn about the place you’re purchasing them from. Many people purchase ferrets from Petco and do not know that those ferrets come from a ferret mill, and that could also be a result in aggression or health issues. Ferrets consist of a lot, a lot, a lot of attention and I cannot stress this enough.

Do not purchase a ferret without a large time span of researching and thinking about this purchase. A ferret will sleep when they are not being held/played with, just because they are sleeping doesn’t mean you shouldn’t wake them up and play with them. Wake them up! Play with them! At ANY time, they love it. Not having a cage for your ferret and letting them out all day to play is the most ideal thing to do for them, but it is not always the safest, such as in cases where houses may have holes that lead to basements or outside, places that have a lot of cords out, or multiple things you do not want your ferret to get into. Having your ferret out of the cage for four hours a day is the minimum you should be playing with them (especially without a second ferret).

I do not recommend having a ferret if you do not purchase two. They love cuddling, wrestling, and playing with each other. There will be days where you do not have much time to spend with your ferret and those are the days you’re going to be glad you purchased a second because you don’t want a depressed animal, and if you’re okay with your animal not being at its happiest then you should not own one. Some people even say you should purchase three in case one dies and the one left can become HIGHLY depressed in that case. Although, do not purchase too many because vet bills can become intense and when you are not providing them with good health you might as well not have bought one in the first place.

Please, do not go out and purchase a ferret just because you think they’re cute one day – if that’s the case, then you’ll probably be trying to return them in the next two weeks or so.

Just keep in mind that I only went over a few basic key points to purchasing and owning a ferret. Going to Petco to learn all of your information isn’t always the best idea, so use your computer and do your own research. I’ve owned my ferrets for over a year and a half and I’m still learning.

These are amazing animals to own, and you will have a lot of fun with them, without a dull moment, but make sure you remember that this is a long term commitment as they can live eight years if taken care of properly.

Good luck!