By: Gabriella Bell

High school graduation is one of the most significant accomplishments during the early years of life. Some people continue their education through college acceptance and attendance, while others may put their energy directly into their career or family after graduation. Although everybody’s post-graduation journey may differ, this doesn’t make any path less important or invalid than the personal choices of others. Not everyone necessarily desires to attend college in its entirety and may prefer to search for short-term or long-term career paths as an alternative choice. Many people also tend to choose taking a few years off of being in school in order to regather themselves prior to pursuing an extended education.

Gap years are extremely common for those who want to continue their schooling, although there are several negative stigmas associated with them. Instances of this could include the impressions surrounding the “laziness” of the people making this choice, but this is untrue.

Another negative stigma often stems from the fear of parents for the future of their child which can often be observed through implications that they will never attend college if they take a gap year. For a lot of people that choose to take gap years, this is false, and with the proper motivation and positive environment, they often do attend and achieve further education if they choose to do so. Regardless, even if they eventually choose not to go to college, this is valid and should be accepted and supported by the members of their family.

Through surrounding yourself with positive influences, and motivations, this can prove to be a lot easier of a transition. Pressure from family members, friends, or even peers can be a major factor in raised levels of stress for people as they move closer to graduation. These outside pressures often leave people extremely unmotivated and stressed, which may impact their overall decisions regarding higher levels of education, or other life choices.

One of the big reasons that gap years are popular among high school graduates is financial responsibilities. This may be through some of the major financial responsibilities of future college students which could include the high costs of student loans, text books, and possibly even rent, which could come in the form of rent for apartments, student dorms, or family homes. This is often why many take time off to pursue a career and save money in order to support themselves and their educational choices successfully, which also increases motivation leading to college graduation. Although gap years can help improve this, financial stability can be a major stressor for many people, which can also impact their motivation to eventually attend college. With the proper support and people surrounding them, this can set them up for success, and help them achieve their goals.

If you are a high school student close to graduation, one of the most important things you can do is surround yourself with a positive support system, which can be found within family, friends, teachers, counselors, or even classmates. This will help to assist you in whatever choices or challenges you encounter following your post-graduation journeys, and set you up for success. Do not be afraid to ask for help during this period in your life. If you are a parent or friend, all that can be said is to be there for your child or friend in order to help support their goals and to be a positive source of support and encouragement to help them succeed.