By: Kate Tabor
Having a sister isn’t always easy. Having multiple sisters can be even worse. As the youngest to two older sisters, I can vouch for this. Even so, I have to admit that I would be lost without them.
Even though sisters can easily annoy one another, I think that a sister bond can be one of the strongest relationships a girl can have. Now, of course it has its flaws, such as stealing clothing, and passive aggressive insults being thrown at one another at the dinner table, but those things are easily overcome. One moment, two sisters could be screaming at each other till their throats are sore, and five minutes later they’re best friends again.
I think that’s what makes a sister bond so special; the knowledge that even though we can get frustrated with each other, we’re always gonna come back to each other and be friends. Some may say that not talking about an argument may not be the healthiest thing, which in some cases I agree, but I think in most sister fights it’s okay, and those feelings can be trusted to be acknowledged and validated through future actions.
As for heart to heart moments between sisters, I find those happen in the moments that matter the most. I can’t count how many times my mother has told my sister to get in here and help comfort her, which oftentimes leads to an awkward pat on the back that lacks what’s really important. That’s not to say that sisters can’t be vulnerable with each other though, I just think that those are rare moments where you and your sister can truly see each other, and that’s when you really need each other.
In a lot of ways, having a sister is like having your best friend also be your enemy, but in the best way possible. You can trust each other to call each other out when needed, but also to have each other’s backs and stick by their side when they need it most.
And even though I hate to admit it, my sister is my best friend. Though right now, I’m extremely annoyed by her.



